by Diana Pemberton-Sikes
With so many designers and trends
targeting the
svelte body of the
twenty-something, is it possible to look fashionable as the years pass
and your body begins to tell the tale?
Absolutely!
In fact, with a little ingenuity and sleigh-of-hand, it's easy to be
fashionable and stylish regardless of how many candles are on your
birthday cake.
Now let's be frank: unless you work out religiously, you probably don't
have the same body at 40, 50, or 60 that you did at 25. Time, gravity,
and pregnancy all take their toll on the female body, as does
menopause. And when you mix a mature body with fashions obviously made
for a younger person, it can lead to self-doubt, frustration, and
confusion.
But it doesn't have to be that way. Getting older also means getting
wiser, and like a fine bottle of wine, you're improving with age. So
you don't have the same body as those twenty-somethings you see in
magazines or on TV. So what? Would you REALLY trade everything you've
learned since your twenties for the body you had back then? Probably no
sooner than you'd like to re-live puberty, thank you very
much.
So how can you be fashionable without wearing all those body-conscious
clothes so en vogue these days? By remembering the "3 C's" when you
dress: clean, classic, and coverage.
CLEAN
Clean lines create a clean silhouette which makes the body appear more
youthful by skimming the trouble spots instead of calling attention to
them. Complicated cuts, seams, and details usually call for a killer
body to pull off, so if you haven't got it, steer clear of those
styles.
CLASSIC
Classic styles are called classic because they remain in style year
after year. Why? Because they look good on so many bodies! Sheathes,
A-line skirts, flat front pants - all tend to flatter a variety of
shapes. What's more, because they remain in style year after year,
classics are easier on the budget than trends.
COVERAGE
Covering appropriately is the key to aging gracefully. If your upper
arms, thighs, and décolletage have all seen better days,
it's time to cover them up a bit instead of sharing the wear-and-tear
with the world. Now I'm not talking about draping yourself in a tent
for the rest of your life. Far from it. I'm talking about wearing short
sleeves instead of going sleeveless, Capris instead of shorts, and
modest necklines instead of plunging necklines.
Now I know that covering up the parts that used to turn heads and draw
envy can be tough to take for some women. Which is precisely why
beautiful jewellery and fine fabrics are the revenge tools of choice
for many well-dressed mature women.
So your bustline isn't as perky as your twenty-something daughter or
granddaughter. So what? Add a beautiful necklace and draw envious
glances from women of all ages. Don't have the same backside you did as
a teen? Encase it in a fine fabric and see how many men go out of the
way to hold the door open for you. People will look where you focus
their attention, so use that knowledge to redirect their interest to
the parts you want them to see.
Or, as actress Cybil Shepard once said, "I like to flaunt what I have
left."
Don't flip through fashion magazines and bemoan the fact that you don't
look like the models. Instead, look at the various fashion elements to
determine what will and won't work for you. Are printed scarves all the
rage this year? Grab a few and be trendy. Are mini skirts the style of
choice? Pass and bank your money.
See how easy this is?
"A woman has the age she deserves," Coco Chanel once said. You don't
have to go under cover and dress "like a little old lady" just because
that's what your mother or grandmother did. You're your own
person.
If you remember to dress in clean lines and classic styles and cover
appropriately, you can still be fashionable - AND draw long, lingering
glances from handsome men -- whatever your age. And if THAT doesn't
make you feel like a blushing girl again, then honey, nothing I can say
will!
About the Author
Diana Pemberton-Sikes is a wardrobe and image consultant and author of
"Wardrobe Magic," an ebook that shows women how to transform their
unruly closets into workable, wearable wardrobes. Visit her online at www.fashionsavvy.com.
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