by Katherine
Damaske
Size does matter! According to a recent
article in
the Washington Post,
the sale of plus-sized apparel rose by more than 13% last year. The
average American woman now wears a size 14, and companies such as Dove
and Nike have taken notice. They are among the first national brands to
recently launch major ad campaigns designed to embrace the beauty that
comes from having ample cleavage and generous thighs.
At long last, full-figured women have finally come into their own. They
can celebrate their shape with more clothing options now than ever
before, and lingerie has become one of the hottest trends on the
fashion map. You’ve seen it on Desperate Housewives, with the
female executive who wears nothing but lacy camisoles underneath her
blazer. Would you be able to pull off the same look? Although every
body style is different, the basic rules are the same. There is an art
to choosing (and wearing) lingerie well. Knowing the secrets to a great
fit will enable you to look spectacular and feel great about yourself!
1.
All Curves are Not Created Equal
No body is perfect. Supermodel Elle
MacPherson has said, “The breasts go first, and then the
waist and then the butt. Nobody ever tells you that you get a butt when
you get pregnant.” We all have our flaws, but part of playing
up your assets will involve downplaying the parts of your body you are
least comfortable with.
If you like, take a good look in the mirror and identify what you love
and don’t love about your body. If you dislike your hips or
waistline, you will want to draw attention to the upper part of your
body. Indulge in bras designed to produce cleavage and accentuate your
curves.
If you feel like your breasts are too full but you’ve got
shapely legs, then they should become your focal point. A babydoll
nightie with an empire-waist will provide support for your top while
letting you flaunt what’s below.
If you haven’t yet found a comfort zone, indulge in a
full-length satin chemise with an a-line cut and perhaps a flirty slit
on the side. If you do not like your upper arms, look for a sheer or
color-coordinated short robe.
The key is to draw attention away from what you do not like about your
body, and place it where you feel like being noticed.
2.
Everyone Needs a Little Support
The best-kept secret among celebrities
and those in the know has to do with the latest lingerie weapons, which
can keep even the most problematic physiques in check. Modern-day
support garments minimize stomach bulge, lift and separate, and produce
a smooth contour under your clothes. Best of all, innovations in fabric
and design mean that the painful confinement of girdles (and other
instruments of torture) are a thing of the past. Look for camisoles
with built-in bra support and high-cut briefs that offer hidden tummy
panels. Women with fuller, heavier breasts should make sure to look for
bras that feature wide shoulder straps. If you are unsure of your bra
size, the best gift you could give yourself would be to get
professionally sized by someone who works in the lingerie section of a
department store. Making sure that you wear the correct bra size serves
not only to make you more comfortable, but it can instantly change your
silhouette and may even cause you to drop a dress size!
Spanx is one particular company that specializes in producing
comfortable, head-to-toe support to keep your curves looking their
best. Sarah Blakely, who founded the company out of her apartment, said
“I bought clothes that looked amazing in a magazine or on the
hanger, but in reality magnified every panty line and
imperfection.” Her brand of footless pantyhose offers maximum
control, and even boasts the tagline, "Don't worry, we've got your butt
covered!"
Seamlessbody.com
is another company that specializes in supportive shape-wear designed
for looks and comfort. They feature unique bodysuits that can be worn
under your clothes and provide all-in-one support for your breasts,
stomach and derriere. Both companies feature plus-sized versions of
their products and are conveniently available online.
If you have a belly, choose high-waited
briefs over bikini cuts. Not
only will they fit more comfortably, but they are great at covering any
stretch marks or other flaws and will flatter your shape.
3.
Less is More
When it comes to color, keep it simple.
A monochromatic look will do wonders to help elongate the bodyline and
slim your proportions. In other words, keep the pieces that you wear at
any one time as close to the same color as possible. Which shades work
best? Dark tones such as navy, burgundy, brown or black will give you a
more slender appearance. Another great rule of thumb is to choose
colors that flatter your complexion.
It is wise to be cautious of patterns. Some smaller, more discreet
prints may add to an outfit, but larger designs have a tendency to
“clutter” or look different when they
drape over problem areas you may be want to conceal. This has the
unfortunate result of drawing the eye directly where you do not want it
to go! If you have a personality that must express yourself with
multiple colors or styles, a great way to spice up your wardrobe can
come from adding on a couple of flashy, attention-getting accessories.
4.
Bigger isn’t Always Better
One of the biggest misconceptions that many full-figured women have is
the notion that choosing larger sizes will hide unsightly bulges and
ultimately make them look slimmer. In reality, a shapeless, ill-fitting
piece will not define anything, either good or bad, and will make your
body appear much less attractive than you would look in clothes more
suited to your accurate size. It’s fine to shy away from body
conscious items. Lingerie pieces should be a natural reflection of your
personality. If you have a conservative personality, wearing longer
gowns or adding layers to your look will enhance your beauty and allow
you to feel sexy without having to bare all. Should you have a more
playful, flirty nature, the sky is the limit! Plus-sized lingerie
includes stunning camisoles with delicate embroidery, frilly boyshorts
that provide excellent coverage while exuding a youthful, sexy vibe,
and buttery soft satin chemises that feel utterly luxurious against the
skin. It is always best to try on lingerie before you buy, in order to
make sure you will have the best fit possible. But if you are in a
time-crunch or browsing over the internet, the best bet is to stick to
your true clothing size.
5.
Stores are Just the Tip of the Iceberg
Did you know that many retailers who do not display clothing over size
12 or 14 often have the exact same styles in larger sizes on their
websites? If you spot a piece of lingerie that you just like but it
isn’t in stock, try to find it online. The internet is such a
good resource for plus-sized women that countless businesses have
opened their virtual stores and specialize in nothing but full-figured
lingerie. With a click of the mouse, you can delight in finding an
elegant slip or searching anonymously for something more
risqué. Many of these websites offer a multitude of styles
for every mood or occasion, and most provide detailed size charts so
that you can feel confident in ordering the correct sized garment. Not
only do you not have to cope with impossibly thin sales associates, but
you can have the freedom to shop from your home, purchase in privacy
and even, in many cases, have your items shipped in generic brown boxes
so the postman will be none the wiser.
What you wear closest to your skin should delight and comfort you, and
deliver a knockout punch to those worthy enough to witness such
unmentionables. The secrets to looking great in lingerie serve to
enhance not only your outer curves, but allow your inner beauty to
filter through as well. According to Wilhela Cushman, beloved fashion
writer, “Just around the corner in every woman's mind - is a
lovely dress, a wonderful suit, or entire costume which will make an
enchanting new creature of her.”
About The Author
Katherine Damaske is a professional writer and
contributor to Sexy-n-Sheer-Lingerie.com which
offers advise, opinions and helpful hints on choosing and buying sheer
lingerie from plus-size-lingerie to bridal
lingerie.
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